scripts: PARALLELMFLAGS is evil, rename

The reunification of the glibc/eglibc code paths exposed a nasty
bug in the glibc build: use of PARALLELMFLAGS breaks the build.

See the explanations in that bug report against FC6:
https://bugzilla.redhat.com/show_bug.cgi?format=multiple&id=212111

Signed-off-by: "Yann E. MORIN" <yann.morin.1998@anciens.enib.fr>

 This is NOT the official version of dialog.  This version has been

 significantly modified from the original.  It is for use by the Linux

 kernel configuration script.  Please do not bother Savio Lam with 

 questions about this program.